Monday, March 3, 2014

My New Son Elder Malan

Hey Family.

I always write down little notes of what happened during the week in my planner but I forgot my planner. So hopefully I remember everything. I'm here with my son!!!!!!!! His Name is Elder Malan. A gringo!!!!! He is from Southern California, 19 years old. He is taller than me (like all my gringo comps). He is such a great Elder. He has all the excitement in the world. It's different because he still doesn't have very much time studying the language. So it's very hard for him to understand everything that the Chileans are saying. But everyday we are seeing an improvement in his Spanish. He is such a stud. He has very good Spanish for just starting the mission. It makes me reflect and remember my first few weeks in the mission. It's a completely difference experience. Right now I'm so used to it, it's my life. But for him it takes a little time to get used to.
 
 But we are working super super hard. Talking to tons of people in the street - at doors to help him get used to talking and being a missionary. He is a great Elder. We are gonna do great things these next few cambios together! We had some really great meetings in Antofagasta with President Dalton before meeting our kids. Basically telling us that we need to be perfect from here on out. We are helping our companions start their mission and how they start will have a great impact of how they will be the rest of their mission and also the rest of their lives!!! I have a big responsibility but I am so excited to help Elder Malan start off on the right step. After the meeting with president we ate some Pizza Hut..... It has been sooooo long since I have had Pizza Hut.... I was so happy..... After lunch at the trainers sat on one side of the room and all the newbies on the other and we put a chair in the middle of the room and the newbies would go one by one and read a letter saying where they are going to be serving and who their papito was. Then everyone yells and screams and we give giant hugs to our kids.. It was awesome!!! It was so intense every missionary that went to read who their papito is. And after you get down and the papito starts cleaning the shoes of the trainee because in these next few months we are going to be serving our kids all day everyday!!! It was an awesome experience.

We got back to Tierra Amarilla on Thursday at 6 A.M and we then woke up at 7:30 A.M and after an 8 hour bus ride from Antofagasta. We passed by a ton of members, inactives, investigators houses so they can all meet my new companion. It's always slow the first few days with a new comp. Getting to know them and stuff. On Saturday we had an activity with the primary kids from the stake. All 40 missionaries sang a few songs and then about 30 primary kids all came to the center of Copiapó and we did street contacts with 8-12 year olds.... Some people can be so mean.... Even to little 9 year old girls..... hahaha No but it was a great experience with the little kids to hand out little cards with a picture of Jesus on them. They all were little missionaries that day. It's amazing looking back on how I looked up to all the missionaries in the street growing up, back when I was in primary, and now they are doing the same thing with us!!! I love being a missionary!!!!!! 
As a District Leader one of the coolest things we get to do is interview the investigators in my district that are planning on getting baptized. Saturday afternoon I did my first interview with Lesly. An investigator of the other Elders here in Tierra Amarilla. It was such an awesome experience to talk to her, and talk a little about her conversion and why she wants to get baptized, and the difference she has seen these past few months investigating the church. One of the coolest experiences in the mission so far. 
Saturday night we had a Noche De hogar (Family Night) in the Church with a few members. We played some games, talked, didn't eat cause we were fasting. But it turned out great! I love when we do little activities where the members gain better relationships with each other!!! We talked a little with our recent convert, Lizzeth. She is going to try and study here in Chile so she can prepare for her mission here in Tierra Amarilla!!!!!!!!!! How awesome is that.... GO LIZZETH. The Lord has helped prepare her heart to hopefully in a year go on a mission!!!!!! So cool.  
On Sunday we had a rough day in church. This past week was the last week of vacations so everyone left.... We didn't have very many people in church but it's okay.... It will be better next week! We had 2 great lessons with some inactive members who in 2 different occasions, cried while we were teaching them. We felt impressed to give a blessing to one of them who felt sick and once we ended the blessings we looked at her and she was bawling. I love when people feel the spirit! The other man is named Richard. He has had a hard time with drinking and smoking on the weekends. Not too long ago he was in the church blessing and passing the Sacrament. But Satan has a grip on him right now. We found him drunk in his house yesterday but yet still wanted to sit down and talk with us. First time we have talked with him in about a month. He feels terrible with what he is doing and wants everything in his power to come back. He couldn't stop crying during the lesson when my companion shared 2 Nephi 4. Take the demons out of you. My companion was inspired to share that.. My kid is a stud. But I feel like Richard, with a little help, will be able to overcome this recent problem of his. He is such a great guy. He is a family member of all the Bolivians! So he´s gotta help us be that example to everyone! He is awesome though! 

We had a great week. We are talking with everyone. In hope to find some people that are prepared to follow through with our commitments. Pray for the area here. We need to see some miracles!!! I love you family and friends so much. I'm happy. My son is happy. I'm training him the best I can. I'm turning into the best leader possible. Show through example. Like Chase always says, "Good People Learn From Great People, Great People Learn From Anyone"... I'm gonna learn and soak in everything from all the younger Elders in my District! Couldn't be more happy to be here on the mission. I never wanna leave.

Con Amor Elder Paxman









Monday, February 24, 2014

I'M GONNA BE A DADDY!

Well family... Starting with the sad news firstly... My best friend Elder Mangum is leaving me.. These past 3 months have been some of the greatest memories, learning experiences, and fun I have had in my whole life. I'm gonna miss my bud Elder Mangum.  I am going to be staying here in Tierra Amarilla and I'm District Leader and Training a new missionary coming to the mission. I leave tomorrow on a bus to Antofagasta ( 8 hours) to go pick up my kid. I am so excited for the opportunity to help some of the other Elders here in my Zone, show a good example to them, and also learn from my Zone Leaders, Elder McCusker and Elder Soto ( Studs ) . As a District Leader you teach a little class every Tuesday to the 8 missionaries in the District and also we go on transfers with the Zone Leaders to learn from them a few times a cambio, and transfers with the Elders in my zone. I couldn't be more excited for the things to come from this new opportunity and am humbled for what the mission President and the Lord wants from me. Lots of thoughts going through my mind. Very excited though. I will find out if my companion is Latin or Gringo on Wednesday when I'm in Antofagasta.

This past Saturday went perfect with the baptism of Luis José. Short, simple, and spiritual. Elder Mangum baptized him and the next day I gave Luis José the Holy Ghost. Elder Mangum and I finished strong to end our last week together with a baptism. I guess you could have called it a ¨Super Baptism¨ I´ll explain that in 2 years to you guys hahah. Luis José is awesome. There is nothing better than baptizing!!! 

More Bolivians came over from Bolivia to work here in Chile. So we have some more Bolivian investigators. 1 who is really good is Juan Pablo. He is the cousin of Andres who we recently baptized. Juan Pablo came to the baptism of Luis José and also came to church the next day. He is very very interested and with the help of our recent converts Andres, Lizzeth, and Luis José it will help Juan Pablo a ton of making his decision to maybe one day get baptized. We are getting poured with blessings like him! Just as it seems we are running out of investigators to teach more come into our path. I honestly CAN'T DENY the help of the Lord. So many tiny miracles happen daily. It amazes me and couldn't be more humble with what we are seeing here in Tierra Amarilla. 

We get tested every once in a while though. The mission isn't all flowers and butterflies hahah. The other day we left the pension at 4 and tried getting into a house for 6 hours.... with no luck hahaha even our Mamita was busy. Days like that humble you and it's like baseball. You gotta have a short term memory. Some games you might go 0-4 with 4 strikeouts but your team still wins. It's like here. Sometimes we can't find a single person that wants to listen to us but yet we're still on the winning team. You just gotta shake it off and go onto to the next day and look at the positives. My feet got a real good workout that day haha. I love the mission baby!!!!!!!!!! 

This Past P Day we went to the mine where ¨The 33 Miners¨ happened. When the 33 miners were stuck underground for 73 days and it was like a national thing.... We went there and took some pictures. It was very cool to learn more of the history of what has happened here in our awesome town of Tierra Amarilla and Copiapó Chile. They are filming a ton of scenes from the movie here in Tierra Amarilla. And a few of the Members from our Branch are gonna be in it. In 2 years when we watch it together I´ll show you the streets I walked on and the people I taught hahah. Tierra Amarilla is famous :) 

I don't got much more to say other than how excited I am to train a new missionary (Hopefully a Latin to help with my Spanish) and also to learn from the other 8 Missionaries in my District and Zone as District Leader. I am humbled and confident of what's ahead of me. But like I said before, I am going to miss my best friend Elder Mangum. Such a stud missionary. Never saw him sad, upset, trunky, or anything negative. He is thee example of a missionary I strive to be. And working along side him for the past 3 months was the greatest time I have had. Seeing the change in the branch, seeing many of our friends change with the decison for baptism. I will never forget this time I had with Elder Mangum. We are gonna see each other again. When I'm in the stands at the Universtity Of Utah game against BYU. Him as quarterback and me yelling our funny Spanish phrases at each other hahaha. Gonna miss the kid. Not much more to say. Lots of strange feelings at this time. But the Lord will be with me. That I do know. Love you all so much! 

Con Amor Elder Paxman





































Monday, February 17, 2014

Dear John...

Pretty Tranquilo week. It was the week of Stake Conference so Saturday and Sunday we were in Copiapó in the Stake Center enjoying hearing great, spiritual talks from our beloved studs of the Stake Presidency. I love seeing good members of the church that fulfill their callings. It's hard to find here. All 35 of the missionaries here in Copiapó sang in a little choir during the Saturday session of Stake Conference. I'm not the best singer but hey... it's okay... you still love me... I hope... On Thursday we had a talent show in our little branch. We had an alright turn out. About 30 people came. Elder Mangum and I sang A Childs Prayer hahah 2 grown men singing a Primary song... But hey it was fun. Elder Carreon rapped hahah Freaken Carreon silly guy..... We did a few more little acts with our Mamita and their family. It turned out really well. It's always good to have a little fun and laugh a little. Show the people that we're not all spiritual all the time.

Luis José (18) is all good for this weekend for his baptism. He is the brother of Andrea and Lizzeth, who recently got baptized. We were planning on 2 baptisms this weekend... But Osvaldo needs a little more time.... Pucha... But Lu Jo is super pumped and has been hearing the lessons for the past 2 months... You can tell he just wants to be baptized already hahah. I love the kid such a dope guy.... Soooo funny. We are super excited to finish off the transfer with a baptism! There is nothing better!!!!!! We have a few other investigators who are progressing towards hopefully a fecha for baptism in March. Christopher, who has been to church twice and also a baptism yet we haven't been able to have a lesson with him... hahaha People here work in the grapes... They like box the grapes up and they do it ALLLL DAY.. They work so long so for Christopher its pretty tough to find him. Marcelo didn't believe in God when we first started talking to him, finally said his first prayer!!!!!!!!!!!! So crazy how some of the basic things we do everyday is so strange to others. It was such an awesome feeling hearing him pray. He even said Amen after our prayer for the first time in 2 months!!! We couldn't help but smile. It is so awesome see the progress day by day that we are helping people make. Can you believe that 19-20 year old kids have such an influence on people, usually older than us, that they actually do what we say!!!! It would be impossible if we didn't have the spirit... I love the Holy Ghost!!!!!!!!! I love the Mission!!!!!! 

I will give all of you a brief schedule of what we do here in our Mission! Its a little different than any other mission in the world because Chileans are a little lazy so we go out an hour later than normal places. 

7:30 am  We wake up, say our prayers
7:40 - 8:10  We work out
8:10 - 9:00  We shower, eat breakfast, get ready for the day
9:00 - 10:00 Personal study (Right now I'm reading the Book of Mormon)
10:00 - 11:00 Companionship study, (Freaken Elder Mangum... Gonna miss him)
11:00 - 2:00 TEACHING, FINDING, TALKING TO EVERYONE, BAPTIZING BABY!!!!
2:00 - 3:00  Lunch Time (Every Chilean is eating lunch at this time so its impossible to teach)
3:00 - 4:00  Spanish Study because now the Chileans are taking their daily nap... Silly Chile
4:00 - 10:30 pm. MORE TEACHING, FINDING AND SPITTING THE GOSPEL!!!! 
10:30 - 11:00 Plan for the next day
11:00 - 11:30 Relax, eat a snack, talk, write in journal, prayers
11:30 Bed Time

Repeat.....

Nothing like the mission baby!!!! I love it. Love you all. I'm happy. I pray a lot for yal. Be happy too.
Pics...
 Elder Peck Completed a Year, As Tradicion you gotta burn a shirt.
 Luis José is the one in the Blue, and Lizzeth the girl next to me. They both came to Stake Conf.
 Ice cream and bread don't go too well together

Elder Paxman